Saturday, December 12, 2009

That there are eternal love?

Love this kind of thing is really like people drinking water Lengnuanzizhi!



Perhaps each of us have heard stories of childhood, literacy, then see their own stories, to the grown up, they unconsciously life to the story. Every normal person needs to stories, just as we need to love ... ...



Not long ago, a friend say so: several people have made us the envy of a pair of husband and wife, from childhood childhood (the hostess year older than the man of the house), Xiangruyimo 20 years, his daughter is facing next year's college entrance examination in this crucial time husband and wife emotionally cracks appeared, perhaps in the near future, that awful once happy marriage is necessary to come to an end.



I understand that this news, was skeptical. Usually we have a few friends to get along very well, this man of the house is the idol of all women have. The gentle lady owner is the envy of all the male friends, because his wife is the husband's paradise gentle. Also, a few men from time to time to remind ourselves that his wife would like to learn about. Because she would like a baby will be gentle, but cautious man of the house will be considerate wife, but also know how to care about people. Occasionally we have a joke, said: "Women wanted to marry, marry a man like him."



Let us not believe that the text of the man of the house, on the outside has a five-year extramarital Love Story (Miss looked for a North-East). As a friend we totally do not know, even his wife were bitter over the years have been kept in the dark. The man usually more romantic, ideas are more open, with a stylish, then it will be that the pursuit of fashion. To do something at a friend whether he should try them first, he was the first one to talk about the object (then only 17 years old), the first one to buy mobile phones, the first one to buy a computer, this is not, and now the first to find a lover, he always follow the pace of the times, so that the times!



But his wife did not work, suffering from the disease several years ago operated a small shop, a day regarded all the time and energy on where to attend to her husband. Perhaps she never imagined that once docile and obedient to her husband will abandon her, betrayed her. Now she's in tears every day, bitter. More people could not believe that, that are for theThirdAlso found to verbal abuse at home, and now we the friend, but has become infamous "third party" of. That pitiful and sensible daughter, sad day, hiding in his blanket crying.



As a friend, we persuade them to. A group of friends to do the work of his ideas, to help him look after the divorce analysis of the stakes, as well as a series of trouble can be to no avail. Once caught in the quagmire of human emotion, he often would tell right from wrong and can not extricate themselves.



From this, let me have to re-look at marriage and love the true meaning of the existence of value? Why do husband and wife were bitter over the years can not be with the willing? Why Xiangruyimo 20 years of marriage, emotional foundation so fragile and vulnerable? What Haishishanmeng year, but now they Haikudanlan oath came to naught in this world can you say who to believe?



Once upon a time, everyone is eager to love, eager to have a sincere heart, But when love becomes a game, another who can do that soulmate, spend the whole life? May be entered into a new century, is now doing cosmetic affair is like to eatViagraLike to become a fashion, and openly declare war to the traditional marriages. People in the past, popular ideal of love, revolution, love, time and other people can spend the whole life without complaint, but now has the Tanhunlunjia men and women who are "not talk about love", but added a number of a married woman or married man who's vulgar, immoral love the spread. As a result, unable to find true love, true love in the loss.



Saying goes: "Men love to marriage; while women marry for love." What is true love? Are there any true love in this world? Perhaps no one can be clear. After the money has increasingly become the goal of life, people deal with emotional attitude, become more and more skimming over the surface and lightly.



Perhaps, between husband and wife face the dull boring married life can only sigh siege of philosophy. Some people may have lost its lonely, unable to grasp the love in this era, in the "Give me everything OK, just do not give me your heart" and "money is bad man, woman bad there is money," but also there are some "life, alive, does not play a few heterosexual make a return on the vain person" sophistry inspired and lured by saying, you want to get true love waited Mody? When love becomes a consumer, when love was as a child's play, an entertainment, you still believe that there are true love? When a time is no longer needed love, I think that was how horrible!



Years of vicissitudes, the world is changing, as the creatures who, of course, no one has the right to require their own sight to behold. However, if each person to achieve self-esteem, self-esteem, self-reliance, self-improvement, and can withstand the temptation to be able to endure loneliness, marriage and love is perhaps the best Self defense. If you want evergreen tree of love, only to be Banxing emotional half-drunk. The best way of life is that between husband and wife with each other to keep a little bit strange to keep a little distance. In this way, can see the sky is blue, cloud is white ... ...

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