Let a man for a more fascinated by the 5 Secret

Said, "Women Want, submarine pins," a man's heart? Is it simply not open? Maybe you lack a mantra of Alibaba. Here out the five tips ... ...



Tip 1: The real fear of being rejected of men

Want to be sure, fear of being rejected, especially by his closest woman refused, which is a common problem of men.



Investigations revealed that the vast majority of men feel that women are always on them to pick and choose, so to speak in their minds they are worried that a get is ridicule, which is making them feel humiliated. A man's self-esteem, like egg shells are fragile items, like a class, you can give him more recognition, he more easily talk about their minds open.



This does not mean you do not have views or your views on this matter is not. Love a man is to accept him, not to shape him. If he is an opening, you will return to a "That is wrong, I do not agree" or "Where did you get this crazy idea," he would soon mollified by.



Mujixiadan ago to do a job is to determine the surrounding environment is safe, because those eggs in peace after the birth of whether it is essential. By the same token, people talking about their innermost secret heart to determine whether the other party can accept, because this secret treasure of his heart. Do not think all men do not care against Taidalielie, he always carefully before opening watching you.



Tip 2: Liang-ming, the position of your

Some women listening to men about the inner secret will be like woodpeckers, nodded in agreement. Wrong! At this time a man needs is to share happiness. At the same time he was to say it is accompanied by a variety of fear and anxiety. Many men will continue with the example, consider "If I speak out, she would leave me" this problem. This is when you need your Sukeaki position, you want to open. When he tells you some very personal things, the will to make something like that - "That's not too bad, I have done worse." Or "I really appreciate what happened." Let him know you like him, his experience is not unique.



Remember that you must be on his side. Many women, after hearing the story of a man just said he was on the matter is wrong. Then you would stand virtually the opposite of his. For example, he tells you he and his colleagues get along well, from his point of view you look at this matter, rather than an analysis of Side seem to really understand them, say something like "In fact, some people may not mean" sort of nonsense . Create a harmonious, let him feel you both occupy the same planet and live in similar worlds. Your honest and positive feedback is essential. If you do so, he would be excited to resonate and endless.



Tip 3: The hands-off when he let go

Have you ever had this experience: you and your husband or boyfriend finally evolved into a conversation recalled suffering, including his own miss to do things the way he hurt you, and he now owe you anything. The situation in each pair of couples or lovers occurs, mental Experts said this kind of feeling that men cringe. In fact, there is a saying you do not want to hear - all the love is like dancing, you have to share the correct answers at the same time also to share the error. On what one takes two to tango bar, even if the fault is his, this error you can not say no responsibility.



Men are most afraid of what a woman does not let go of the past, so it is rarely revisit the issues.

Their concern is not without reason, some women prefer to play the victim and the "martyrs" role, they need to use for the love of the blame to feel good about themselves. Perhaps, this approach could allow them to temporarily hold-up of some men, but remember that if dressed Jour rely on the past sacrifices to keep a man, it shows your feelings have been very dangerous.



Tip 4: Exercise the courage to listen to the truth

You have to have the courage to listen to the truth.

Many men feel that women want or need a beautiful lie. Some of my clients have said they are afraid to tell their partner what happens in life or their true feelings, because this would allow the other side down. To know why you would leave the impression that men do? Because in fact, many women prefer men with emotional control - and thus control their relationships. Women are often called for men to make a specific response, such as she was a cry, the men should be immediately brought to the shoulders, accompanied by extremely gentle whisper. Not when the woman became depressed. In fact, this is a hint that men do not tell the truth.



From time to time to commit this mistake, but was willing to listen to the truth is really the beginning of mature relations between the sexes. This will make a man feel he has a reliable partner, and can with a fair-weather. Do not do something self-deception, they should not lose heart, maybe you still can not accept all the facts, but as long as you like, you will be able to exercise their own tolerance. Fantasy make a woman feel good, but the more we accept the fact that the more we will become stronger. True security does not come from the recognition of others but to their own sincerity, the only way we listen to the truth.



　　Tip 5: For their true

Nobody helps a man to say the best way to right yourself honest, natural, real, and the release of a warm and accepting atmosphere. We have encountered in life were like a mirror of our own, different features, our ability to attract other people, these people so that we fall in love with himself strengths. This is why I have made here are the five topics not only against men but also women themselves against us. For example, you can give up self-evaluation? Can you not for his past wrong thing and to heart? Or, do you always by your mistakes and failures is clouded? A place, but how could his people to forgive others?



When a person fully accept themselves, he was able to create a completely relaxed state. Do not you feel some people had a sort of charm, even though we met with them the time is not long, we are also willing to believe them and to say it. If we can do have a clear understanding of their own, you basically get rid of this era the prevalence of impetuous, mercurial, camouflage, conceited and self-esteem, so that people who read both intimacy