Expert analysis of the common obstacles to psychological factors

Disorders caused by psychological factors are very complex, it was their nature to divide them into three categories of disorders caused by psychological factors are very complex, it was their nature to divide them into three categories:

(1) ─ ─ refers to the risk factors during development by inhibition of sex education;

(Two) ─ ─ coagulation factors caused by an accident to combat the sexual trauma, the impact of severe, multiple difficult to restore;

(3) to maintain long-term anxiety ─ ─ factors related to lasting effects, it is difficult to restore or can not be restored.

Here we will be discussed in detail.

(A) the direct cause of disorders caused by: refers to sexual intercourse occurred in the process of inhibitory response to a variety of direct factors.

1, anxiety: it is one cause of sexual dysfunction, fear not function properly refers to sexual function, fear of failure. Anxiety by itself Yin-off response. It is speculated that sympathetic activation through its anxiety often resulted in their desire to prophecy fulfilled the vicious circle of fear of failure that caused the failure → → → Mental income increased fear another failure ... .... If drunk even to impotence, leading to anxiety, from repeated failure, since that is a permanent pathological changes, this shadow has always been troubled by a normal expression, predictions have come true, unfortunately. Similarly, anxiety can block a woman's arousal, the consequent effects on vaginal lubrication, the final result in painful intercourse, to find an excuse to avoid sex life, the further change of the system, in turn, increase the anxiety.

Specifically related to anxiety and personality, and some men's lack of proper masculinity ─ ─ rough, strong, Shen Yi, hearty, hot-tempered, failing still soft indecisive, lack of courage. Especially under adverse conditions, the successful or unsuccessful sexual intercourse does not easily panic, depression, end of regret, as a result of excessive pursuit of a successful inner pain and anxiety. This may be due to sex hormone levels in the blood circulation disorder. If the boys in the fetal period of excessive estrogen exposure, he grew up after the attack much less than other boys the same age. Of course, the sociological impact of such biological factors than the impact of even more important.

2, fear of failure: It may be because of sexual partner sexual obligations required for the exercise caused when the psychological fear of more failures due to pairs of the expectations aroused. If the man has not yet aroused when the woman made sexual demands, the man under the rapid failure due to anxiety erection, the consequent fear of failure. This kind of request of sexual performance more from the woman, as compared to men under tremendous pressure, he must arouse a timely manner and the erection, otherwise it will inevitably cause difficulty Kan painful situation. On the contrary, for sexual intercourse, the women's arousal is not absolutely necessary. The problem is that the woman counterpart orgasmic disorder. More common in men with a sense of insecurity and assertive or aggressive men, they tend to be too much pressure.

Sex is hard to make each other's satisfaction is a good thing, but if entered will cause extreme anxiety. If the man too much to consider his sexual activities, whether in the correct techniques to stimulate each other, the woman is probably worrying about their breasts are too small enough to cause the other party's interest, which can cause fear of failure. In treatment, many patients need guidance to understand the needs of the partner should be more sensitive to some. Desire for sexual joy of these patients will need each other's training, they need to learn the time being selfish means, enjoy the sexual experience of self-feelings. This can overcome the other side a welcome win over the demand.

3, set the experience of sexual feelings of the barrier: The most common is the spectator. He was just acting as a spectator's role to evaluate themselves or each other's sexual performance, he was not wholeheartedly input, but remain in the nature of action, and adequate response needs of the rich experience of sexual feelings. This can not help the conscious evaluation process is clearly inhibited by the autonomic response to natural regulatory processes.

4, communication failure: cause of sexual dysfunction, the most important reason. For example, a large number of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, but you have never told each other, so there no orgasmic disorder.

5, did not devote adequate and effective sexual stimulation behavior: including those with visual, hearing, smell, touch and in this respect. Many asexual orgasm while seeking treatment for patients who simply do not know what is the clitoris, where it is, sex is composed of friction and fantasy, any shortcomings will affect the response. Particularly women and middle-aged men.

6, looking back negative concept: If a partner to focus on some unpleasant or unattractive places, such as the thighs are too fat, heavy breathing sound, or their breasts withered not beautiful, they inhibit their own response The idea may be unconscious.

Prior to or during sexual intercourse to talk about the unpleasant events, or memories of failure experiences lack of confidence in themselves and suppress emotions, affecting erection, lead to failure. Or the date of recall introduced undesirable peer experiences, or in the past experienced similar experiences, such as the sigmoid colon in patients with microscopic examination also left painful memories of the wedding the same room is to produce unpleasant associations, leading to vaginismus.

(B) the early years of acquired knowledge (including childhood, adolescence and adulthood) ─ ─ priori since childhood from a strict religious orthodoxy of the family educational background, sexual dirty imparted a sense of guilt; masturbation is subject to parents severe punishment; of her daughter's double standard of value education, "not any good girl would be interested in sex"; first sexual experience of the disastrous history of creation, such as the interaction between men and prostitutes were ridiculed, or blame can be caused by girlfriend erectile failure, women subjected to rape; lovelorn attack; same-sex variable interaction history; the psychological fear of the opposite sex. These factors are likely to cause sexual dysfunction, but not the inevitable result. Such as a psychiatrist concluded a group of patients with schizophrenia and found a consistent feature of the patients have a mother, so he concluded that, where there are mothers who are bound to cause schizophrenia. Of course, if he also analyze the normal control group, or other diseases will be found when the same characteristics, he also will not "with the mother" as one of the arguments of the diagnosis. In a few decades ago, believes in a strict religious orthodoxy of the family are very common, but not everyone is experiencing problems, Kinsey, Fisher, Redbook and other investigations have confirmed this point, this is the couple's idea of Mars totally different. Kinsey has pointed out, the more religion of the husband and wife more satisfied with sex life, the more happy. It seems the human factors and differences played an important role.

(C) the relationship between conflict

There is a contradiction between husband and wife, male behavior rude, the woman her husband's ridicule, indifference, mistrust, may also lead to strained relations, especially a longer period after the monotony of the formulaic nature of life, but also make marital relations to deteriorate, other areas such as economy, children, , employment and other factors have further clinical magnetic collapse of marriage, when the sexual life of discord and even sexual dysfunction is not difficult to understand, or a sexual partner Nu hair will never harbor feelings of hatred and the promotion of germination of pleasure. Some people also make harm to the other side of the weapons, even greater harm.

(D) internal conflicts

Analysts believe that the psychological cause of sexual dysfunction is often unaware of the inner conflict. This is Ma's wife, and others behaviorists different point of view, the latter stressed that the learning process errors leading to sexual dysfunction. Analysts believed that the people in psychology has a strong expression of desire, also have unconscious sexual anxiety, and fear of being punishment sexual contacts, so they created inner conflict that comes from childhood, especially in the Electra or Oedipus when emotions. During this period, children think that they have parents with the same sex identity, and heterosexual parents to express the nature of this kind of incestuous sexual desire similar to solve such a sentiment is to obtain psychological maturity and good regulation are necessary conditions. If you can not get rid of this clearly has the color of incest fantasy and jurisdiction system for parents in subsequent adulthood tend to produce sexual dysfunction. Although Freud overturned Masitesi couple of these theories, but in their behavior in treatment failure is often precisely those who have the inner conflict of people. The treatment of these people still need to focus, long-term psychological analysis, in order to reveal the unconscious inner conflicts have not been resolved. Kaplan to Mars combine theory and psychoanalytic treatment of patients with inner conflict, and achieved some results.

(E) the relationship between fear of intimacy

Fear of intimate relationships reflect the acquisition of knowledge during the early years of inner conflict and the presence of mixing between the two resulting directly from a special reason, it means that one from the emotional to others are closed. In fact, these people than the fear of sexual relations is also afraid of intimate relationships. They often only love themselves watching television, and other people talk is nothing but just talk about the weather, or simply concerned about sex without feelings, who was never willing to open their hearts and their confidence a real exchange of emotions. If they are single, and its typical process is closed and the loss of their own interest, this situation can be a partner relationship with many repeated. For fear of intimate relationships may be negative or disappointing results of intimate relationships, which can lead to a problem can really be met, and until the walk back from the sexual relationship.

(Vi) Other factors

1, environmental factors: refers to the adverse conditions for cross-Wye, such as environmental clutter; fear of pregnancy; fear of sexually transmitted diseases; fear of semen loss of beverages, fear of masturbation history of troubles left behind, mostly unmarried men, when the concern; female fear of hymen rupture of membrane when the pain, fear of male reproductive organs, shyness and other subjective and objective factors. Severe depression that can affect testosterone levels. 2, neural mental state to change: such as fatigue, emotional depression, general decline in vigor, neurosis. 3, age factors: the elderly man into the psychological anxiety generated when both men and women sexual response characteristics of the inconsistencies in the woman can not be met, resulting in male sexual dysfunction of the second peak age areas ,41-50 years old (the other is 21-30 years old).