"Sexual business" concept is determined by IQ, EQ and other concepts derived, although it is just a birth was accused of "speculation", but in its attempt to use specific quantitative targets to consider the level of human sexual health, a new perspective this is still a positive meaning. In accordance with the definition of experts, the so-called sex operators (Sex Quotient, referred to as SQ), including the level of people's sexual health, sexual physical ability, sexual psychological adjustment, and sexual interaction capabilities and many other aspects. It is not only on the medical perspective, but should be based on physiological basis, including psychological, cultural and social environment, a comprehensive determination of indicators in four areas.
By this standard inspection, the Chinese men's "sex business" much lower than the level of Europe and the United States men. British released "Durex global sex survey" shows that the global number of adults having sex with one-year average of 97 times, the Americans up to 124 times, while the average Chinese adults having sex just 63 times. In 2000, the departments concerned did a nationwide survey even more optimistic: the current 20-60 year-old Chinese man, in marriage or cohabitation more than 6 months of life, can only sex life more than once a month frequency maintained until 43.9 years of age; to an average of 47.7 years, men's sexual frequency of less than a month once.
With regard to women's sexuality in China, the investigation has not yet seen, but because male sexuality there is a problem, leading many Chinese women are not sexual satisfaction within marriage. Asian Sexology Association Vice Chairman Liu Dalin told the China's current level of sexual satisfaction did survey respondents, only 1 / 3 of respondents said they met, 1 / 3 that barely met, 1 / 3 that does not meet the . Many couples while knowledge levels, a relatively high cultural qualities, but a low degree of awareness. Even if the sexual disharmony, the two sides rarely exchanges always feel difficult to speak, has never put it as Shi Er. Until both sides have a problem physically, wives blame their husbands impotence, husbands blame wives or sex, marriage at risk. Because of the nature of the problem is not scientific and calm attitude, and some women even experience of a lifetime are not sexual pleasure. At present, the Chinese women's sexual psychological problems mainly in two aspects: one is more conservative sexual attitudes; second, or sex. The two are complementary, precisely because there is no scientific and sexual health awareness, we can not fully enjoy sexual pleasure; since there is no pleasure in terms of sex, or sex is not surprising.
How to improve your own "sexual business"? Experts believe should be the right remedy, mainly from the following three aspects:
The first is to develop good habits, such as attention to diet, increasing physical activity and maintain sexual health, etc., as far as possible to prevent diseases of all kinds, so that recharge your batteries, leaving the capital to the revolution. Medical experts throughout the study records show that the reason why people's sexual function decline is associated with people's health level and increase the incidence of various diseases are closely related. Due to natural deterioration, particularly in cities, the increasing pressure of life, as well as to accelerate the pace of life and other reasons, some people just arrived in middle age suffering from old age, such as heart disease, hypertension, diabetes, prostatitis and so on. Young people because of the excessive pursuit of the so-called lifestyle - such as life without the law, smoking and alcoholism, while the overdraft with their own health. As the people of the function is the same as a whole, can not be detached out of the body parts of a problem which will affect the person's sexuality index and sexuality, therefore, to maintain good health, so that energy is to upgrade their "sexual business "level of the first prerequisite.
Second, through a variety of ways to increase knowledge and scientific understanding of nature. Europe and the United States by 10-year-old physical education began to acceptance, but most Chinese people to have the opportunity to receive high school, adolescence education, but few of them involving sexual and sexual health content. With Europe and the United States than the Chinese people's sexual health education and related intellectual capacity lags far behind. As a result, Chinese people's apparent ignorance of sexual health, sexual disease, to hold to avoid the mentality. Due to lack of knowledge, many women married for years still do not know how the orgasm going on, there are lots of healthy women, first sexual climax is a few days after marriage and even a few years or so time before, and some are still alive emerged only after his children can not be said that not a sad thing. To understand the nature of science, first of all to overcome the taboo of sexual psychology. In many people, especially women, have the concept, and believe that sex is a "dirty" things, it held a negative attitude. Indeed, as part of physiological function, sex is like eating as normal and natural. And harmonious sex is the emotional intimacy between husband and wife to maintain the most delicate, the most indispensable thing. If the heart to understand, explore, it will become you unexpected happiness. Both spouses have the right to get pleasure from sex and happiness, but also have an obligation to each other through sex with thoughtful care. Therefore,坦然地面对, the protection of a good mental state, enhance the exchange of feelings between husband and wife continues to enjoy the sexual knowledge, actively engage in sexually functional exercise is undoubtedly the psychological adaptation and correction of errors of the "panacea." Extravagant guest | www.sheke.org
The third is to foster healthy attitudes to sex. Have a word called overkill, indeed, when the part of the Chinese people are still reticent about the nature of time, another part of people's sexual attitudes have been quite "ahead", and then extra-marital sex, one-night stands, promiscuity, prostitution, prostitution, etc. phenomena continue to emerge. This not only caused by the spread of sexually transmitted diseases, especially AIDS, but also eroding the people's hearts, and ruined the atmosphere of society. In fact, those who think that open from the sexual freedom it is difficult to be gentle and long-lasting love, joy and indulgence in the seemingly behind tend to have more sense of loss and insecurity. Moreover, the degradation of lies and personality as the price for the sex instinct to satisfy desire, actually means a loss of sexual morality. Therefore, a healthy sexual attitudes greater significance, its contents can be basically summed up as abstinence, be faithful and correct use of condoms and other aspects. In fact, whether male or female, need to have a cordial love, in the most time of crisis would not leave his life partner, and only marriage and family in order to meet the natural needs. Nature of marriage and the family are based, for the vast majority of people, only men and women equally abide by the Virgin, in their own sincere devotion to each other, based on the established uniform marriage sex and love each other can there be a higher level of mutual trust, and more will help the two sides in the single-minded sex marriage do so. Sex and love unity, sex and marital unity is the only civilized and healthy attitudes to sex. With such a couple of ideas, they have the basis of the quality of life, and can establish a stable and harmonious integrity of the family, moving to common physical and mental health with love to nurture the next generation. If a majority of the members of society possesses such a concept of sex, then have a well-ordered society and stable development. Only with a healthy attitude towards sex, sex is normal, beautiful, and noble
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