Thursday, February 4, 2010

Body language can expose your mental secrets

A person to convey complete information to the outside world, simple language component accounted for only 7 / 100, tone accounted for 38/100, 55/100 other information required by the non-verbal posture to convey but also because a person's body language is usually unconscious move, so it seldom is deceptive.
Applaud that excitement, and stamp their feet on behalf of angry, anxious and that anxiety and nutation on behalf of depression, Tan Shou expressing their impatience and beat their chests on behalf of the suffering of ... ... also known as body language, body language, refers to the body through a variety of movements, and thus replace the language in order to achieve the express emotion communication purposes. Generalized other words, body language, including facial expressions; narrow words, body language, body and limbs only expressed meaning. The parties in this and other physical activities, express their emotions, others may identify the parties as expressed by its physical state of mind.


Anthropologist observed that among people in the face to face situations, often because of emotional closeness between the different, rather than consciously maintain different distances: the most intimate people, but can in fact be close to 0.5 meters; a close personal friend among friends, they can have close to 0.5 ~ 1.25 m; general communication between strangers in public places when the distance between them, usually maintained at more than three meters. Such a result of the performance of emotional closeness and interpersonal distance changes in psychology is called interpersonal distance. Clearly, changes in interpersonal distance is determined by the parties communicate in a kind of body language on the emotional expression; know each other, as regards the close connection, when strangers to each other, they keep their distance from. If a party attempted to close the other, the person will be consciously back, which still remains a considerable distance.


And interpersonal distance similar to another phenomenon, is a personal space. Individuals in order to maintain the security of their psychological feelings, does not consciously with others to maintain a considerable distance, and even an attempt to draw around one of their own space, do not want others to invade. In the library or public places, often see a lot of people own a seat to sit outside in an attempt to re-occupy their belongings left and right sides of the empty seats. Expressed in body language at this time who is a defense, defense outsiders invaded their personal space to bring feelings of uneasiness. Readers may observe such a person's mood changes; if a stranger asked sitting beside him, he would feel uneasy, and even rise to leave; if he is familiar person came, he would greet each other, take the initiative to give the other seats around, and that he would be happy about it.


Express their emotions from body movements, the parties often do not self-knowledge. When we were talking, sometimes frown, sometimes shaking his head, sometimes swinging gestures, sometimes crossing his legs, we are mostly unconscious. For this reason, psychologists put forward a hypothesis as follows: When you speak the truth with others, your body will be close to each other; When you are with people telling lies, your body will be far apart from each other. The validation results showed that a hypothetical: If the requirements are different subjects were presented with someone else knows to be fabricated lies with the correct facts, telling lies of the subjects will unconsciously with each other to maintain distance from the And look back through the body, limbs and fewer activities, but smiling face will increase. A person to convey complete information to the outside world, simple language component accounted for only 7 / 100, tone accounted for 38/100, 55/100 other information required by the non-verbal posture to convey but also because a person's body language is usually unconscious move, so it seldom is deceptive.


  Part of the body language mean:

Lowers --- do not agree, disgust, anger, or do not appreciate the

Angry or frustrated walking ---

Twisted his hands --- tension, anxiety or fear

To face each other --- friendly, sincere, outgoing, emotionally secure, confident, more assured and so on

Saotou --- confusion or does not believe

Laugh --- agree or satisfactory

Biting lips --- tension, fear or anxiety

Tapping your foot --- tension

--- Attention or interest to lean forward

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